Attraction and Dating
Physical attraction is a strange thing. Why are we attracted to certain members of the opposite sex (or same sex) and feel nothing for others? Scientists and psychologists offer some insight into this intriguing question. The explanation goes, somewhere deep in our subconscious mind there is a schema of of what we find attractive. Perhaps it’s the result of fond childhood memories of adults that treated us well or television actors. Regardless of the reason, this schema influences our dating patterns.
You will notice that the people we date often have similar physical features and many times even similar personality traits. That’s because attraction is almost automatic we are slaves to the schema. A very good looking person doesn’t have to worry about this because they are generally universally accepted. When it comes to dating, ugly people really have it rough. But there is a way to overcome this issue.
Visit Basecandy.com and look for ugly people. Read their profiles and you will discover that the ones that are confident or present that persona of intelligence and confidence will be more likely to attract people that are better looking than they. The reason is quite simple, once you get to know somebody their looks change. Sometimes its for the worse depending on your relationship but it could be better. So if you want to attract a dating prospect that is more comely than you work on improving your personality.